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56 yr old just out of the closet feeling confused.

Xaja
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

59 Corvallis, Oregon, United States

Female / Divorced / ID: 1667264

Seeking Female 45 - 56 living in Corvallis, Oregon, United States For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Casual Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Xaja

She's Looking For

Sexuality:

Lesbian
Lesbian

Consider themselves:

Just Me
Lipstick Lesbian / Femme, Just Me

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Do smoke
Any

Occupation:

No occupation / Stay at home
Any

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Yes - don't live at home, No

Member Overview

I just came out after 40 yrs of pretending to be straight. I just want to explore the lesbian lifestyle. My hope is to have a first date with a woman. i am a physically disabled woman; have difficulty walking and standing for long periods of time due to diabetes. Likes music (not rap), old and ne...
I just came out after 40 yrs of pretending to be straight. I just want to explore the lesbian lifestyle. My hope is to have a first date with a woman. i am a physically disabled woman; have difficulty walking and standing for long periods of time due to diabetes. Likes music (not rap), old and new movies, sci-fi, mystery, autobiography books; loves playing board games, cards and online bingo.
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Seeking

funny, intelligent, silly, enjoys conversing on current events, historical events, uses cannabis recreationally or medicinally or not, not looking to have sex on first date, interested in helping me explore the lesbian lifestyle.
funny, intelligent, silly, enjoys conversing on current events, historical events, uses cannabis recreationally or medicinally or not, not looking to have sex on first date, interested in helping me explore the lesbian lifestyle.

More About Me

Xaja

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
59
45 - 56
Lives in:
Corvallis, Oregon, United States
Corvallis, Oregon, United States
Sexuality:
Lesbian
Lesbian
Consider themselves:
Just Me
Lipstick Lesbian / Femme, Just Me
Relocate:
Willing to relocate within my country
Not willing to relocate

Appearance

Hair color:
Red
Any
Hair length:
Short
Long, Short
Hair type:
Straight
Any
Eye color:
Hazel
Any
Eye wear:
Glasses
Any
Height:
5'6" (168 cm)
5'6" (168 cm) - 6'0" (183 cm)
Weight:
124 kg (273 lb)
82 kg (180 lb) - 114 kg (251 lb)
Body style:
Full Figured
Athletic, Few Extra Pounds, Full Figured
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Asian, Caucasian (White), Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Pacific Islander, Mixed
Best feature:
Other
My Butt, My Smile, My Personality, If You're lucky I'll show you later
Body art:
Tattoo
Tattoo, Earrings
Appearance:
Below average
Attractive, Average, Below average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Do smoke
Any
Marital Status:
Divorced
Single, Divorced, Widowed
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Yes - don't live at home, No
Want (more) children:
No
No
Have pets:
Dog,Fish
Dog, Fish, Bird, Horse, Exotic pets, No Pets
Occupation:
No occupation / Stay at home
Any
Employment status:
Retired
Any
Income:
Prefer not to say
Prefer not to say
Home type:
Apartment / Flat
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Live Alone, Live with friends

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Masters Degree
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English
English
Political view:
Left wing / liberal / socialist
Prefer not to say, Other, Left wing / liberal / socialist, Not interested, Don't Know
Religion:
Buddhist
Any
Star sign:
Pisces
Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces

Personal

Bust cup size:
B
Any
Bust:
48" (122 cm)
Any
Waist:
46" (117 cm)
Any
Hips:
54" (138 cm)
Any
Out of the closet:
Coming out
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Other, Beach / Parks, Board / Card Games, Camping / Nature, Concerts / Live Music, Crafts, Dinner Parties, Gardening / Landscaping, Library, Music (Listening), Meditation, Museums / Galleries, News / Politics, Philosophy / Spirituality, Poetry, Reading, Social Causes / Activism, Theatre, TV: Educational / News, TV: Entertainment, Video / Online Games, Writing

Food:

American, French, Barbecue, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Continental, Jewish / Kosher, Deli, Vegetarian / Organic, Mexican

Music:

Other, Classical / Opera, Country / Folk, Jazz / Blues, New Age, Pop, Reggae, Rock, Soft Rock, World

Sport:

American Football, Figure Skating, Gymnastics, Horse Riding, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

And The Band Played On.

Favorite Book:

Anne Rice books, Kim Harrison books, Robert Heinlein, James Patterson

Favorite Food:

most anything not too spicy or hot.

Favorite Music:

almost anything except Rap.

Dress Style:

Plus size basic fashion style.

Humor:

sarcastic, silly, not into comedies that use humor about people.

Hobbies & Interests:

crafts, bingo, watching movies,

Travelled:

Originally from FL; have lived all over Southeastern US, lived in WA, and vacationed in Cozumel, Mexico. Would like to see more of the MidWest.

Cultural Adaption:

As long as they speak English that I can understand I'm fine with it.

Romance:

Do not know. Have never has a romantic weekend with a woman.

Personality:

Quiet to raucous.

My Perfect Match is:

Almost anyone who can get along with me.

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